Homosexuality & moral decandence?

July 10th, 2008 by Mabel
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Recently, a note on Facebook caught my attention. Michelle over at The Meesh Experience had written a note in reply to an article Bernama published a few days ago, an article entitled “Homosexual’s Life Of Moral Decadence” (available here).

After reading the article (and her note), I was prompted to fire off a couple of missiles at Bernama’s way – namely for the horribly self-righteous, inaccurate and utterly slanderous piece!

Dear Editor,

I refer to a recent piece by one of your journalist entitled “Homosexual’s Life Of Moral Decadence”, written by Melati Mohd Ariff.

It is beyond comprehension how a national new agency is able to publish an article that is so obviously slanted and judgemental. Your article goes against every journalistic creed. Whatever happened to research, neutrality, and objectivity?

Or as Bernama turned into the mouthpiece-blog of a pompous and self-righteous individual?

“In the West, the morally wrong and corrupt homosexual act has turned into a sort of plague, spreading its tentacles far and wide, engulfing individuals with the tendency of adopting this immoral self-indulgence.”

A person’s sexual orientation is their private choice – if that is self-indulgence, then why not? Should anyone tell another person who they can or cannot fall in love with, spend the rest of their lives with? The writer shows little knowledge to the actual workings of a human psyche when it comes to relationship. Homosexuality isn’t just about sex; it is also about the heart.

“This act, which is like a malignant cancer, should not be allowed to spread its tentacles, as it threatens to bring destruction and devastation to the society.”

For your information, cancer is malignant so your sub-editors are not doing a very good job. That aside, has Europe been destroyed and devastated? On the contrary, in countries like Netherlands, Belgium and now, Spain where gay marriages and relationships are approved legally, people enjoy a high standard of life, good public transportation, low crime rate and excellent education/culture exposure.

Can we say the same for Malaysia where our crime rate has increased over the years, our education is lacking in many ways (to say the least) and our public transportation is almost non-existent? This coupled with the fact that we don’t have a very high standard of living, more of a high inflation rate.

“Not everyone wants to see the country to be overwhelmed by the influx of moral decadence that erupt from those who are out to draw the people into the dark ages of morality.”

So a homosexual who is God-fearing and law-abiding is morally decadent compared to a rapist, a drug addict, a man who rapes his granddaughter, a wife beater…?

We are living in the dark ages of morality but it isn’t because of homosexuals. As far as I know, many homosexuals in Malaysia are still closeted and they are law-abiding citizens. The dark ages of morality your writer speaks of comes from self-righteous and overbearing individuals who ignore the real cause of the problem and choose innocent people as scapegoats.

Also, I have this to add – can you please send your reporter, Ms Melati Mohd Ariff back to journalism school and a reputable one at that? She lacks objectivity, and her article is poorly researched. Has she lived in the West? Has she encountered or spoken to homosexuals? Or is she writing this article based on stereotypes and what religious men out there say? Perhaps the article was written to slander homosexuals in light of the recent arrest of a prominent man accused of sodomy.

Still, it lacks many things and as such, this article of hers is an embarrassment to all journalists, even one was trained like myself. What’s worse is that people abroad reading this laugh at how ridiculous and extreme we sound…extreme like those fanatics who scream for jihad at any sign of provocation – big or little.

Your news agency has become a huge disappointment over the years and particularly now, with such articles. Wake up and smell the coffee. As a news agency, you have a code of ethics to follow or have you lost sight of that as well? If you have, your agency is only contributing to the “dark ages of morality” in Malaysia.

Sincerely,
Mabel Teoh, Switzerland.

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6 Responses

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  3. Anonymous

    I fully concur with your response to that horribly biased article – however, I would just like to draw attention to one thing you said: “A person’s sexual orientation is their private choice – if that is self-indulgence, then why not?” Homosexuality is not a personal choice…I for one sometimes wish dearly that I was heterosexual. But this is the way I was born, and I must accept this, or I will never be happy.

  4. Mei

    Yes, I know what you mean about the accepting who you are bit; the statement merely refers to the fact that no one has the right to tell someone what they should be or who they should be. How we are sexually and what we choose to do with our decision is ours to decide and live by.

  5. Azash

    I will have to disagree with you about your comments.Melati ariff’s article is based on pure research.She HAS lived in the US, in fact she studied there in Boston University and got her degree there in Communications .She HAS interviewed and met homosexuals.She Has more experience in journalism than you do,she has been working as a journalist for nearly 20 years and used to work for newspapers that have a very,very good reputation.She HAS won many awards for her articles that are based on various topics.Now I don’t hate or dislike homosexuals and neither does Melati ariff.I say this because I know her better than any of you.So, in conclusion i ask you to look before you leap and apologise to her for your unfair allegations.And one more thing leave politics out of your judgements.

  6. Mabel

    You’re entitled to your own opinion, just as how I am entitled to mine and as such, I don’t see why I should apologise for my so-called unfair allegations when her article is full of them.

    As an “experienced” journalist, it is even more important that she sticks to the creed of being neutral and objective in her article NOT use words/phrases like “plague, spreading its tentacles far and wide, engulfing individuals with the tendency of adopting this immoral self-indulgence” and equating homosexuality with cancer.

    I don’t know Melati so my judgement is based on what she writes and how she portrays her position as a writer. And right now, her position is not one of neutrality on the issue.

    As for leaving politics out of my judgement, can you really say for sure that Bernama doesn’t have a political motive in publishing an article with that tone?

    Anyway, my thanks for your reply – interesting to see that this still interests people despite being a year old.

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